He was the only man ever to be elected three times to the board of the National Organization for Women, which is a feminist organization, and spent much of his life advocating for feminism.ĭuring his work advocating for women, a switch flipped in his head when he realized that women are, in fact, not the oppressed sex. Warren Farrell is a soft-spoken, educator, activist, and author on gender issues. As if to say that the, often painful, death of a soldier fighting for freedom is simply insignificant. So, men die in war, but women are the most affected. Women lose their husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat. Women have always been the primary victims of war. Hillary Clinton illustrated this eloquently when she said: When you pay attention, you will notice an ongoing narrative that dismisses the plight of men, and even somehow makes women the victim of male disposability. But rather, female dominance and male submission. This outrage is manufactured by a female first primary social order, with it originating from a toxic version of feminism that is no longer about equality. In actuality, none of these narratives bear any close resemblance to the facts.

The average man has been fed a steady diet of silly narratives his entire life, such as: Women are oppressed, The patriarchy is evil, Masculinity is toxic, All men are rapists, Women are victims, and Women get paid less than men for the same work. Until a man accepts this reality, and updates his core beliefs, he will forever struggle with the reality the Red Pill brings. This is why I’m placing this chapter early in the book, because it’s important for men to understand how we, as a society, value the feminine over the masculine, and also why that is. One of the most difficult concepts guys struggle with today, is that men live in a ‘female first’ social order.

The unplugged alpha